Know Your Service Boundaries (for BOTH sides of the /) | Lessons from the Trenches of a Service Whore

Service—a cornerstone for many who practice Authority Transfer or engage with the Community—is treated almost as social currency within the Lifestyle or even the tithe we offer our beliefs. However, while we fully support, embrace, and champion S&M Boundaries, little is ever even whispered about Service Boundaries. This silence is a detriment to the individuals involved as well as to the overall Community. Most of us can name at least one person who has sacrificed too much in the name of service and faced serious negative consequences that required months or even years to recover. Instead of simply preaching service, service, SERVICE, we each need to have honest conversations with ourselves about the Service Boundaries needed to Protect both the Big Letter and little letter Property! Whether you are a little letter or a BIG letter, serving a partner, a relationship, a Leather House, an organization, event, or the Community at large, join DominaKat—a recovering Service Whore—in exploring what Service Boundaries you may want and need in your Journey.