If You Give a Sadist a Cookie

Setting up Pick Up play or first-time scenes with a new partner can be both exciting and a bit scary! Some people start their negotiations by building a list of negative ‘No’s & Don’ts’, lines in the sand. But those lines can get blurry as a scene goes on, miscommunications can occur.

Have you ever played with an inventive Sadist or Dominant? ARE You One?? Then you know exactly what I mean!

How can we build a scene that is ‘inclusive’ rather than a negative list? We demonstrate ways to change this process, to make scene negotiations positive, engaging and Sexy As Fuck! Hopefully eliminating consent incidents along the way! Structuring a scene on a positive note, rather than a negative laundry list can really change the dynamics of your scene!